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Old 04-08-2003, 12:59 PM   #8 (permalink)
Brit_Pair
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Originally posted by OhioCouple
. . . Oh yeah, if you do decide to continue to swing, if "you" aren't having fun, then it probably isn't fun for your boyfriend either. If you don't have an attraction to someone for whatever reason, don't do it for the sake of going with the flow.

Lori
101% correct. If he's like most of the men with partners here (well, this one at least), a great deal - maybe the majority - of his pleasure will come from seeing your pleasure. If it's genuinely not pleasing you, then you're doing both of you a disservice.
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