This is an interesting situation. I know that your husband took your comments as a green flag to play. I'm sure I would have too in that situation if it's not spelled out before hand. (There is a reason why I dont have nor want female friends respectivley)
This does not mean to point the finger at you in any way as this being your fault. Just a situation gone bad and ill communication. (imo) Do you see the animosity between the other couple's relationship as beieg a potential problem?
Bottom line is rules are rules. I trust that your relationship with your boyfriend is important to you both. He was truthful as far as you know which should be commended to some degree. Like Julie, I also say forgive and forget. Move on to a couple that you both are attracted to. One that shares and respects your rules.
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