I find that I enjoy using terms of endearment for those we play with, but not the same ones I use for somebody I really care for a lot. Hubby gets babe, sweetheart, and the like reserved for him. The guys we've been with have used sexy, and gorgeous or darlin' to talk to me, and I have liked that. For them, I like to come up with some other name to use for them. Fro example, one guy we were with was in the Navy, so I called him "Sailor". It worked out well, and was lots of fun. When he'd call to find out what our hotel room number was I could say "Looking for a good time tonight, sailor?" And we'd tease him about doing our patriotic duty keeping the military happy, etc. Nicknames like this can be lots of fun, and avoid any confusion. |