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Originally Posted by incommunicado  My wife suggested something interesting. that the really attractive people can go to regular bars and get people to hook up with, even in groups. They don't need swingers clubs. |
Not necessarily. We know some very attractive people who go to swing clubs and never hook up with anybody. It's not because they don't want to, it's because they don't know HOW to. It takes more than good looks to be "attractive" to us. It takes
personality.
One thing about the "young 20-30 something hard bodies" that you were looking for..... their "strike zone" is probably from late teens to around 30. That means they're looking for girls who still have tight flat tummies and perky boobs and men that have 6-packs and full heads of hair and can go all night long. Even if your bodies are in really good shape, your hands, feet, skin, teeth, and libido are still in mid-life. "Early 40's" is only a few years younger than their parents.
Does it seem ironic to you that percentage-wise, the people you wanted to hook up with (20's-30's) were about the same age difference from you as the ones you considered "much older" (50's) and wanted to avoid?
I still think your story was pretty funny. I wonder what was said (or done) that got that guy clocked?