I re-read your post and realized it was not an outright attack like some others, so I thought it deserved a polite response. If you note, by the quote you chose, I was simply being clear about our preference, without meaning insult to what we were not looking for. This is no different than saying "listen, we have nothing against, but just aren't attracted to... [insert ethnicity here]"
And the kinda not in Ken and Barbie range stems from neither of us being model tall, and me being a bit thinning up top. But my wife is very strikingly beautiful and sexy (not only by my admission, but because I can't keep men away from her). I am cute in features, and run 4-5 miles a day, 5-6 days a week, and do pilates, and we are both professional dance instructors who run our own company, so hard body isn't too far off the mark.
And, if you re-read my post, at no time were we looking to be "found attractive" by others. We just wanted to be surrounded by others while we had sex with each other. That eliminates the issue of "why should they choose us?"
So, in that we are definitely near the proper attractiveness range that we wished to cavort with (which is, of course, subjective) and because we were not expecting anyone to want us anymore than we wanted them, I think our expectations, or at least our desire for such, was not unrealistic.
Again, I appreciate your polite approach and hope I have answered your questions effectively.
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Originally Posted by tncinmd  Lets see, you said:
"Most of the crowd was the "not Ken and Barbie" set and were MUCH older than us (we're late 30's to early 40's, most were 50's and up). Now, I am not ranking on the "not Ken and Barbie" folks (we're kinda in that range) or the near-baby boomers. It's simply that we were going to see and be seen and wanted to be surrounded by the young 20-30 something Miami hard bodies that Trapeze is supposedly famous for attracting (all the pics on their site are of said people)."
So, even being 'kinda' in the 'not Ken and Barbie' range, you thought those young 'hardbodies' were going to find you attractive ? That they'd ignore the bodies and age difference in a way you can't about those older and more 'not Ken and Barbie'? How does that work ?
Look, we have no problem with your preference, but unless you're going to hit the gym and get in the hardbody range, we think your expectations are just a bit unrealistic. |