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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321  If you are not comfortable with bisexual men and don't want them attending your parties, why not state in your invitation that your parties are ONLY for couples with straight males? It would seem to send the message you want and do it right up front. This would be a step in avoiding dissing some "really cool people" simply because the men are purportedly bi.
I think you may be feeling more peer pressure to univite this couple than anything else; you'll loose these other couples if they know you accept bimales at your parties and they'll probably start gossiping to others about your parties "openess." If you don't want bimales there that is your choice, but make it clear upfront.
And how much of what the other couples have told you do you know is fact? If they "heard it through the grapevine" a story can be nothing but rumor.
I think you're in a tough spot and I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.
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The couples profile states that he is a straight male. We met them at a party for straight males. They are lying on their profile essentially. Both couples said that they lied to them as well. One described a story where they were playing with the couple and as the two women went down on the male half the bisexual guy bended down and asked if they could put it in his mouth as well.
Y0ou're absolutely write its a hard situation and the biggest thing is that it pretty much is just hersay, though from a reliable source. With the first two couples the evidence was pretty obvious. The one guy is still calling and messaging us with curse words because we disvinted them. The other couple conceded that they told us both was straight but just recently decided that the male half wanted to explore his bisexuality.
I hate calling someone a liar and that's what this is pretty much going to be.