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Originally Posted by exquisit1s 
...the last couple we are trying to figure out the best "PC" way to do it. We have found out from two different couples whom we've known for a long time that the male is bi. A lot of our guests, myself included, [are] not comfortable with bisexual males at straight male/couple parties. We've met this couple once and they seemed like really cool people and at our last party, though they did not play (it was a meet and greet), they seemed like pretty good guests.
It was not until the next morning that two of the couples told us about seperate incidents involving the couple. One of which the male attempted to suck another males cock while the couples were playing.
The day after our party, they sent a very warm email telling us how much fun they had and how they couldn't wait for our club party in two weeks.
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If you are not comfortable with bisexual men and don't want them attending your parties, why not state in your invitation that your parties are ONLY for couples with straight males? It would seem to send the message you want
and do it right up front. This would be a step in avoiding dissing some "really cool people" simply because the men are purportedly bi.
I think you may be feeling more peer pressure to univite this couple than anything else; you'll loose these other couples if they know you accept bimales at your parties and they'll probably start gossiping to others about your parties "openess." If you don't want bimales there that is your choice, but make it clear upfront.
And how much of what the other couples have told you do you know is fact? If they "heard it through the grapevine" a story can be nothing but rumor.
I think you're in a tough spot and I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.
LM