[VegasLee]

I am not sure that I understand the difference between the couples. One was unruly according to friends and you found him pushy so you dismissed them.

The second one you found in his profile that he is bi or bi curious so you dismissed him. Your friends say the third guy is bi you want to dismiss him. You do it the same way you did the other two.

Honesty works and this is about being an adult. What does PC have to do with it? If you are not happy with people that are coming to your party then don't invite them or if need be advise them they are not welcome at your party. Tell them the truth.

If it is NOT your club I don't know what would keep any of them coming anyway. If it is your club you have the right to say who will and will not be at the parties.

I am not saying I agree with your reasons but it is your party, your rules.

Keep it simple.