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exquisit1s · 04-07-2008, 03:35 PM

What is the best way to go to uninvite a couple to your party? Over the last weekWe have found myself in the position of having to uninvite 3 couples to the party. One of which We received feed back on that they were unruly in the past. That was the easy call to make as his pushiness was very evident in emails and messages.

However, the last couple we are trying to figure out the best "PC" way to do it. We have found out from two different couples whom we've known for a long time that the male is bi. A lot of our guests, myself included, or not comfortable with bisexual males at straight male/couple parties. We've met this couple once and they seemed like really cool people and at our last party, though they did not play (it was a meet and greet), they seemed like pretty good guests.

It was not until the next morning that two of the couples told us about seperate incidents involving the couple. One of which the male attempted to suck another males cock while the couples were playing.

The day after our party, they sent a very warm email telling us how much fun they had and how they couldn't wait for our club party in two weeks.

The other two couples I found it so easy because it was so obvious and they truly offended me (the second couple perpetrated to us when we met them that the male was straight, but after meeting them we went home and checked out their profile .. which was changed.. where he professed how he wanted to go down a male). In any case the first two were real easy to disinvite but the last one I am finding it difficult to say a good PC way.

04-07-2008, 03:35 PM	#1 (permalink)
exquisit1s Here to Stay Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 22 Location: Detroit	How to Uninvite a couple What is the best way to go to uninvite a couple to your party? Over the last weekWe have found myself in the position of having to uninvite 3 couples to the party. One of which We received feed back on that they were unruly in the past. That was the easy call to make as his pushiness was very evident in emails and messages. However, the last couple we are trying to figure out the best "PC" way to do it. We have found out from two different couples whom we've known for a long time that the male is bi. A lot of our guests, myself included, or not comfortable with bisexual males at straight male/couple parties. We've met this couple once and they seemed like really cool people and at our last party, though they did not play (it was a meet and greet), they seemed like pretty good guests. It was not until the next morning that two of the couples told us about seperate incidents involving the couple. One of which the male attempted to suck another males cock while the couples were playing. The day after our party, they sent a very warm email telling us how much fun they had and how they couldn't wait for our club party in two weeks. The other two couples I found it so easy because it was so obvious and they truly offended me (the second couple perpetrated to us when we met them that the male was straight, but after meeting them we went home and checked out their profile .. which was changed.. where he professed how he wanted to go down a male). In any case the first two were real easy to disinvite but the last one I am finding it difficult to say a good PC way.