Thanks

there is a lot of really nice people here. Tribbles, Julie, you rock!
50slady thanks for being the brave one to start the topic.
We went out with our friends tonight, a group we have just started to get to know, and who we really like. We played pool, and flirted like normal... but all the while knowing that we will likely never get to fulfill all those innuendos and flirts and kisses.
I don't know if we can handle being swingers that don't play... they are all great friends, and fun to hang out with, but there is more, and we can't be part of that more any longer.
I'd be lying if I said it wasn't tempting to wait for the breakout to go away and just keep on like nothing ever happend, and I know that's not right... so I think it might just be easier to delete our AFF profile, change our cell #, and kind of disappear.
Oh and on top of all the social stress, jesus this shit hurts.