We're Full-Swap, Venti, Half-Caf, Low-Fat, Soy Latte, Lite Foam swingers.
It does seem that we get lots of variety underneath the umbrella, doesn't it?
I agree with you Lee; there are a variety of views on what constitutes the Lifestyle, and I'm pretty open minded on what others decide defines it for them.
I don't know what fetishes would be considered common in the lifestyle. We've known some folks with foot fetishes, some into BDSM, as well as a few others, but I don't know if we've seen enough of these to call them common.