 Are you a Swinger?
Over the years it seems that Swinging, wife swapping, recreational sex has evolved into being a “lifestyle” by the new definitions.
Many are encompassing many things in today’s current lifestyle so I thought it would be interesting to see what people think of the different types within the Lifestyle and what your thoughts are on it.
Swingers: Those that have recreational sex between consenting adults. They get naked and have sex with someone other than their spouse. (I guess this definition can change depending on how you define a sexual act. “I did not have sex with that woman.”)
Soft Swingers: People that get together, make out like they are in high school. Some include oral sex as soft swinging.
Voyeurs: This group goes to clubs and conventions where Swingers party so that they can watch others have sex. Many feel this helps their own relationships because it gets them all hot and bothered then they go home and have wild sex with their spouse.
Exhibitionists: Those that like to go to clubs and have sex in front of others but don’t swap or have any sexual contact with anyone besides their partner.
Flirts: (aka teasers) can be found at most any club. The women dances with other women, maybe showing her tits and attracting all the attention they can. Many of them keeping the interest of many of single men throughout the night with no intention of doing anything with them at the party or any other time.
I am sure there are many others that are now included within the “Lifestyle” that used to be Swinging.
All of us have our own views and ways we define the Lifestyle and our personal experiences within this Lifestyle. Does not make any of them right or wrong, just different and that is a good thing.
How do you define yourself within the Lifestyle?
How do you define the terms that are used in today’s Lifestyle?
Are there other “fetishes” that you believe are common within today’s Lifestyle?
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