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Originally Posted by rdy46227  Thanks again, kind people. You're asking good questions which have generated lots of thinking.
SO and BF had the discussion about SDT, testing, condoms, fidelity, etc. at the beginning, and we agreed to a closed set. BF spoke for his wife, quoting her as saying that she has no interest in sex with anyone, him included. We implicitly include BF's wife in the set, expecting that if she has sexual contact with anyone it will only be BF. Exit strategy was also discussed, so if BF does want to (honorably) roam then we can break off beforehand. |
Hello Rdy
I picked this quote because in my opinion, from what you have said so far, the odds this guy cares anything about STD's, fidelity, etc. are very slim. If he's not being 100% honest with his own wife what do you think the odds are he is being honest with you or your SO, I'm just saying.
Tread lightly my friend and good luck
Mr. Lol