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Originally Posted by rpu3  Even if you do build a relationship and decide to trust someone in any number of contexts, they can still be acting a risky manner outside of your context and you may or may not know about it to factor it in. |
That's what it has come down to for us. Even if we chose to limit our play with a select group of adults, but the other adults having their own reasons/motivations for playing can/will expand it if/when they want... sometimes without our knowledge. That fine and dandy for them, but we'd rather not go down that road of taking a "course of meds" because someone else wanted to widen the circle to include people we don't know. By the time things get fishy, we're probably in deep water anyway. (spoken like a true scuba diver, eh?)
Nothings a sure thing... I know we'd prefer bareback if/when we're with like minded adults that want are seeking trust/"exclusivity". ....kinda like focusing on open-minded vanilla friends that are brought into the lifestyle.
Make sense? Or are we just kidding ourselves?