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Old 03-31-2008, 08:14 PM   #73 (permalink)
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Default Re: Playing with cheaters

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Originally Posted by VegasLee View Post

Is it because there are so few single women in this Lifestyle that many feel it is alright to play with any women if she is willing even though she is cheating?
Yes, this is exactly what I believe the issue is. It's all about supply and demand. If single women (especially single bi women) were plentiful, you would see close to the same standard that is applied to single men.

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So much is preached here about truth and honesty in the lifestyle yet so many are willing to give that up for a shot at another women. We all stress the importance of our relationships yet a very large percentage of people are willing to play with cheating women. It appears that many don't practice what they preach.
There are about 400 replies to the poll so far.
Just taking a wild ass guess, there are maybe 100 folks that regularly post on here every day, giving opinions on such matters. I may be off a bit, but like I said, it's just a guess.

Almost all of those that have posted about truth/honesty, and playing with cheaters voice their opposition very strongly and in large quantities. Ever notice what happens to the folks that introduce themselves on the site as "married but looking for some side action"? They are put in their place almost immediately (Nothing wrong with this in my opinion. We don't care for cheaters either).

So, my thought is there are a lot of people lurking, or not posting on that particular subject, because they do not share our opinion on who is and who isn't fair game when playtime comes around, and don't want to deal with the hassle of defending the position on here.
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