[NJCouple]

My husband never asked me for a 3-some and many years ago, I would not have considered it. What he did do is share his fantasies without any pressure. We would read each other stories from Penthouse Variations or Forum that made us hot to fantasize about. His often included threesomes. We watched x-rated movies again often containing threesomes and as he got hot during these things, he would make me hot as well. Eventually, I would choose the stories or movies with 3-somes. LOL. For our tenth anniversary, I set up a MFM on our vacation. That was before the computer age and finding swingers became easy. We didn't swing again for 15 years. He started looking for swinger sites and introduced me to this board. I read the posts voraciously. Then, he found some of the sites like Swing Lifestyle. We signed up just to look. We went to a hotel party on vacation and were hooked. LOL. I doubt I would have been ready earlier. Our relationship is so strong after 26 years and I have the utmost confidence and trust in my husband. When I was younger, I was very possessive and jealous. It took some maturity on my part and confidence to not only accept, but to enjoy the lifestyle. Your partner and her comfort should be your priority. My husband would have been content for us to share the fantasies, but is thrilled that we can now live them. Mrs. NJcouple