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VegasLee · 03-31-2008, 03:55 PM

I am going to admit that I am personally very disappointed in the results of this pole.

318 people have responded as of this writing.

29.25% of the people approve of married women cheating and are willing to play with them. In contrast only 11.95% feel it is alright to play with a cheating man.

Personally, I don't feel it is alright to play with anyone that we know is cheating but my view means nothing. All are welcome to do what they feel is right for them.

Is it because there are so few single women in this Lifestyle that many feel it is alright to play with any women if she is willing even though she is cheating?

So much is preached here about truth and honesty in the lifestyle yet so many are willing to give that up for a shot at another women. We all stress the importance of our relationships yet a very large percentage of people are willing to play with cheating women. It appears that many don't practice what they preach.

Of all the threads and polls I have seen over the years here and elsewhere this one has me thinking less of the people in the lifestyle then any other information I have ever seen before.

I know many are going to say it is not their problem, they are not the ones cheating. Your right, you did not cheat. Kind of like robbing the bank, you did not rob it, you just drove the getaway car.

Don't get me wrong. I don't feel I am any better then anyone else that posts here or that I am holier then thou. I am pointing out there are some serious double standards being lived in this lifestyle by many though and it is not something I am personally comfortable with.

Not only am I not comfortable playing with cheaters of either sex I am not comfortable playing with people that feel it is alright to play with the cheaters. If they will do that what else will they do?

03-31-2008, 03:55 PM	#64 (permalink)
VegasLee Laura's Male Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,951 Location: Las Vegas, Nevada Status: Laura's Male	Re: Playing with cheaters I am going to admit that I am personally very disappointed in the results of this pole. 318 people have responded as of this writing. 29.25% of the people approve of married women cheating and are willing to play with them. In contrast only 11.95% feel it is alright to play with a cheating man. Personally, I don't feel it is alright to play with anyone that we know is cheating but my view means nothing. All are welcome to do what they feel is right for them. Is it because there are so few single women in this Lifestyle that many feel it is alright to play with any women if she is willing even though she is cheating? So much is preached here about truth and honesty in the lifestyle yet so many are willing to give that up for a shot at another women. We all stress the importance of our relationships yet a very large percentage of people are willing to play with cheating women. It appears that many don't practice what they preach. Of all the threads and polls I have seen over the years here and elsewhere this one has me thinking less of the people in the lifestyle then any other information I have ever seen before. I know many are going to say it is not their problem, they are not the ones cheating. Your right, you did not cheat. Kind of like robbing the bank, you did not rob it, you just drove the getaway car. Don't get me wrong. I don't feel I am any better then anyone else that posts here or that I am holier then thou. I am pointing out there are some serious double standards being lived in this lifestyle by many though and it is not something I am personally comfortable with. Not only am I not comfortable playing with cheaters of either sex I am not comfortable playing with people that feel it is alright to play with the cheaters. If they will do that what else will they do?
	__________________ You all laugh at me because I am different. I laugh at all of you because you are all the same. Last edited by VegasLee; 03-31-2008 at 04:00 PM.