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I would tell her that the sanctity of your marriage is still in tact and always will be. For my wife and I she was kind of floored the first time that I brought the idea up and then the usual insecurities kicked in from her like "am I not good enough for you" to "why would you want to see me with another man" etc. etc. What I told her which is the truth is that I love her very deeply and that we have a rock solid marriage and that Swinging would be a lot of fun. It would give us a chance to make good friends with people and I told her that I love her so much that I want to see her pleasured in every way possible. She and I have an unbelievable sex life together but, it would be very arrogant of me to think that I am the end all be all. We are both straight so my wife and I have our rules and they are that we will do Full Swap, Soft Swap Same room and we will do MFM threesomes and FMF threesomes because neither of us is bi or bi curious. The question that you really have to ask yourself is... Does your marriage have a rock solid foundation to tolerate what happens in swinging and can you truly witness and see your wife in every intimate position imagineable with another man or woman? Then to flip it around is can your wife withstand watching you pleaure another woman in every way imagineable? You have to get into swinging for all of the right reasons. This lifestyle is not for the faint hearted and it certainly is not for anyone who is jealous. I hope this helps.