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oddcouple · 03-30-2008, 08:42 AM

A number of years ago I, like most men, dreamed of a threesome between myself and two women. I finally had this conversation with my wife, in fact let her know a threesome between myself, her and another man would be okay if she wanted. She said "not interested". We did start to talk about swapping at that time, but she didn't think she could have sex with another man.

My surprise was that when it came up again, she admitted she was turned on by the thought of me doing another woman and her watching. She got with a single friend of hers and helped make this happen. A little while after I finished with her friend, my wife and I had the hottest sex ever between us until that date.

A while down the road the conversation came up again, both threesomes and swapping. I really wanted her to experience something new, because I had been able to (we've been married a long time). Eventually we met up with some friends from our past that we thought were swingers. Turns out they were (of course my wife was the one to figure that out). So we began to swing with them. The rest is history.

Your wife will either be into it or not. Lots of communication, honesty and trust needed in the relationship.

03-30-2008, 08:42 AM	#19 (permalink)
oddcouple Here to Stay Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 30 Location: Tennessee Status: Married M/F	Re: A Threesome, how to get the wife interested A number of years ago I, like most men, dreamed of a threesome between myself and two women. I finally had this conversation with my wife, in fact let her know a threesome between myself, her and another man would be okay if she wanted. She said "not interested". We did start to talk about swapping at that time, but she didn't think she could have sex with another man. My surprise was that when it came up again, she admitted she was turned on by the thought of me doing another woman and her watching. She got with a single friend of hers and helped make this happen. A little while after I finished with her friend, my wife and I had the hottest sex ever between us until that date. A while down the road the conversation came up again, both threesomes and swapping. I really wanted her to experience something new, because I had been able to (we've been married a long time). Eventually we met up with some friends from our past that we thought were swingers. Turns out they were (of course my wife was the one to figure that out). So we began to swing with them. The rest is history. Your wife will either be into it or not. Lots of communication, honesty and trust needed in the relationship.