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WS & Lovely,

Time, only time will take care of this.

Several years ago a friend of “L’s” moved in with us after a split with her husband. They go way back to school days and have known each other for years. The lady was fun to be with and I like her a lot. Nothing sexual ever happened, but the signs were all over the place from her. Eventually she moved out, and just next door. “L” was not happy because she read the desire in billboard print also. The years have passed, she still lives next door, and we are still friends. The infatuation with her has passed by keeping her at arms distance. This all happened long before we started swinging. I still like her a lot, but unless something happens to bring her to my attention, I don’t think about her.

WS,

What will be will be. You just have put your feelings in a pooka and close the lid on it. If the situation changes some time in the future, great. If they don’t, you still have a friend. And in time, you will adjust emotionally.

Lovely,

Sounds like you and your husband are doing what needs to be done in your situation.

Good luck to you both!

S