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graygo98 · 03-27-2008, 02:27 PM

We are really tight with J's family (parents and sister). Almost daily calls to just chat about stuff. (No, we aren't real sucks, they are just funny smart people that we enjoy.)

When asked "what are you doing on Saturday/did you do on Saturday" we just used to say we went dancing. Used to name a club downtown. The problem now is her sister thinks it would be great to come dancing with us. (One of our vanilla couple friends wants to do the same.) We are just not going any where near there! So we're now a lot vaguer... "Oh, just out with some friends." Which leads to ....

"So, who are these friends?" Fortunately I have worked in a few places and a long time ago went to school in a few more. Amazing how those old acquaintances keep popping up.

I am all for just telling them plain out. After all, we are just about hitting that half-century mark so we shouldn't still have to lie to our parents about our friends or "hobbies". J is just not willing to take that step at the moment. I am not really sure sometimes if we are really fooling anyone, especially her sister though, from some comments she had dropped.

03-27-2008, 02:27 PM	#48 (permalink)
graygo98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 395 Location: Toronto Status: Couple	Re: What do you tell others about where you are when swinging? We are really tight with J's family (parents and sister). Almost daily calls to just chat about stuff. (No, we aren't real sucks, they are just funny smart people that we enjoy.) When asked "what are you doing on Saturday/did you do on Saturday" we just used to say we went dancing. Used to name a club downtown. The problem now is her sister thinks it would be great to come dancing with us. (One of our vanilla couple friends wants to do the same.) We are just not going any where near there! So we're now a lot vaguer... "Oh, just out with some friends." Which leads to .... "So, who are these friends?" Fortunately I have worked in a few places and a long time ago went to school in a few more. Amazing how those old acquaintances keep popping up. I am all for just telling them plain out. After all, we are just about hitting that half-century mark so we shouldn't still have to lie to our parents about our friends or "hobbies". J is just not willing to take that step at the moment. I am not really sure sometimes if we are really fooling anyone, especially her sister though, from some comments she had dropped.