I think it sounds like you need a break, I've been there before. After taking a break I came back refreshed and with a different attitude and a different idea of what I was looking for. There is definitely a lot of frustration with finding good playparters but I think you'll find the more upbeat and positive your attitude becomes the more people will want to play with you. And don't be afraid of playing with someone outside of your ideal, they just might surprise you. Some of the best experiences I ever had were with those who I wouldn't have first thought were fun. There are a lot of great fun swingers in Michigan
