 Re: Why I Hate the Lifestyle
Well, JandCMI, I wish I knew what to tell you. I'm one of those lucky people that has been able to find a group of somewhat regular play friends, but I honestly don't know what our "secret" is.
I perved your profile too, and other than the boldfaced/all caps section (which doesn't apply to Mr. Sweet and me anyway), I can't see any reason why you're having such bad luck.
Perhaps there's a black hole in your area for "good" swingers? Perhaps you've had a bad run of luck? I don't know. Have you taken any breaks in this time from the lifestlye? If you're not having fun (and possibly getting a bit jaded), then perhaps it's time to step back a bit. Enjoy the time with your wife, and wrap yourselves in each other. Sometimes banging your head against a wall only gives you a headache.
If you're determined enough to keep trying, then perhaps try a new approach. Go to a different club, try different ad sites. I'm sure some of the more experienced folks here can empathize with you and provide much better advice.
Best of luck to ya'll,
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