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Old 03-19-2008, 06:07 PM   #60 (permalink)
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Default Re: Playing with cheaters

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Originally Posted by redgirlwithfrec View Post
On Swing Lifestyle we have been contacted by at least 3 couples in the last year that it turned out they were a couple that was both married but not to each other.
We had this happen at the club once. The timing was awful since we assumed they were married and they slipped after we had all pretty much decided to go upstairs.

"His wife has no idea," the woman said. "And my husband would totally shit a brick."

This was while Mrs Spoo was in the ladies room and the husband was getting another drink.

Needless to say, I had to be very honest with our change of heart.

I think the difference between playing with cheating men and cheating women, while both something we would not do, is simply a matter of supply and demand. Attractive single women at our club are so rare that I think a lot of people would bend the rules to realize that fantasy - while single men as so plentiful that it is easier to stand fast.

Doesn't make it right - but I am sure that is the reason.

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