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***JustAskJulie*** · 03-17-2008, 02:00 PM

I thought this was an interesting question.... what do you tell the non-swingers in your life about where you are / what you are doing when you are out with swinging friends?

I had this happen this weekend, a friend from work (vanilla) asked what we had been up to on Friday night... and I was just like "we went to dinner with friends". Then when asked what plans we had for Saturday night I just said "we are going to a party". Luckily, I don't have the issue of having people who think they should get invited along to everything we do. I think if that were my situation I'd be tempted to just tell them that "we are trying to spend more time alone together as a couple".

03-17-2008, 02:00 PM	#24 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: What do you tell others about where you are when swinging? I thought this was an interesting question.... what do you tell the non-swingers in your life about where you are / what you are doing when you are out with swinging friends? I had this happen this weekend, a friend from work (vanilla) asked what we had been up to on Friday night... and I was just like "we went to dinner with friends". Then when asked what plans we had for Saturday night I just said "we are going to a party". Luckily, I don't have the issue of having people who think they should get invited along to everything we do. I think if that were my situation I'd be tempted to just tell them that "we are trying to spend more time alone together as a couple".