[newblueyedcpl4u]

Our experiences at two of the swinger clubs in Maryland were quite different. The first one we went to was an older crowd, say late thirtys to young fifties. That crowd was our age group so we got along well with many of the folks there and played with a few. The other club was a younger crowd and they didn't know we existed. We probably looked more like Mom and Dad then someone they would be interested in. We did find that the younger crowd was more interested in dancing and partying then swinging and the older crowd was there to be voyuers and have sex. As far as watching and not being touched , well both clubs we went to have the same rule. No means no, and if someone breaks that rule all you have to do is notify the management and they are out the door. Lots of people are voyuers and that is evident when you go to a group room of a on premise club and notice how many people are standing there completely dressed just watching. The female half of us loves to watch the girls dance and watch them play on the dance poles. On the other hand when she is in bed she is not the bi type at all, she will touch and doesn't mind being touched but doesn't want it to erupt into a full blown sex session with a female either. So yes a lot of people go there to enjoy the sexy atmosphere and drink and party, and you are certainly not going to be alone in that venture. On the other hand you might meet a really nice couple that is a perfect match for your first time swinging. Good luck~ J and R