Re: Newbies: Do you want New or Experienced Swingers?
We first met up with another relatively new couple (altho, they did also both have singles profiles...so I'm thinking they hadn't been a couple very long).
The other folks we've met with have varying degrees of experience.
I guess the reason a preference is stated in an ad...since they are new, they want some one new as well because they are all kind of in the same boat (nerves, lack of experience, etc)...whereas they might think that meeting up with an experienced couple is more pressure to play, not wanting to be seen as 'flakes' or teases if they don't want to play, etc.
But the request for the experienced couple could be for some of the same reasons. They don't want to have another newbie couple that is just as nervous...maybe someone to take the lead in how the night progresses?
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