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screaminggood · 03-14-2008, 10:30 AM

I'd welcome you at my favorite club...to dance and watch but I have a suggestion for you: If someone dances up next to you, you should politely let her know, "We're new and just watching tonight," or some phrase like that.

If you dance and flirt with them for more than one song, and then you walk away....they might tend to think you were leading them on, and wouldn't like you for it. Whereas, if you're open about your limits, they'll still dance and smile at you, but know to look elsewhere for that evening's playmate.

03-14-2008, 10:30 AM	#7 (permalink)
screaminggood Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 847 Location: Dallas TX Status: couple	Re: What goes on at the Swinger clubs? I'd welcome you at my favorite club...to dance and watch but I have a suggestion for you: If someone dances up next to you, you should politely let her know, "We're new and just watching tonight," or some phrase like that. If you dance and flirt with them for more than one song, and then you walk away....they might tend to think you were leading them on, and wouldn't like you for it. Whereas, if you're open about your limits, they'll still dance and smile at you, but know to look elsewhere for that evening's playmate.