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Originally Posted by ac556k 
We thought about going to one of the swinger/sex clubs to fool around. We both have no desire to be with other people but just the ambience of others having sex around us would be fun. Will people at these clubs mind if we don't wish to be touched by anyone else?
thanks
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Hi ac556k~
Welcome to the Swingers Board!
I think more couples like you are having fun together at swingers clubs in a way they can't at a vanilla club.
You will probably find yourselves telling people not to touch, or join you, quite often. So be prepared for that. Swingers are used to getting involved with others at the club, that's why they go. There is a thread you might find interesting called
Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers? I think this could give you a glimpse of the different views swingers have about people who come to swingers clubs and don't play with others.
Since you aren't interested in engaging in sex with other people at this time, have you discussed the possibility of that changing?
For example, maybe consider inviting another couple into a private play room where you have sex with your own partner, no interaction with the other couple. Each couple are voyeurs and exhibitionists, but don't have any contact with each other.
LM