[Hot Raleigh Cpl]

Getting things started is difficult. There are several things we've tried that work well.

Sometimes, L announces that everyone is overdressed, and she removes her clothes, then starts removing clothes of a playmate. If the others don't get into the act soon, she states that everyone but her is overdressed. That usually gets the clothes coming off. Other times, L unzips a guy, starts playing with him, and starts removing his and her clothes.

One thing we've noticed over the years is, it seems the longer everyone sits around dressed, socializing, the more difficult it is to make the transition, and the more nervous some folks get. This seems especially true with inexperienced playmates, so we try to get things going early.

To alleviate this, several times we have just stated up front that to avoid the long, nervous socializing, it's best to just get naked and get started. It's amazing how many times folks breathe a sigh of relief and agree! So we get in a room, lock the door, and spend a max of 5 minutes saying hi (that gives folks a chance to size each other up and change their minds), get naked, and get down to what everyone is there for anyway. Works GREAT!

So for us, the easiest transition is minimal transition. Just get down to it one way or another as soon as possible after meeting. We know this won't work for everyone, but it works fine for us.

S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl