Re: What brings people to poly?
lustylearning, a person does not have to be in a group marriage to be in a poly relationship. You may be aware of this, but your reply seems to convey that perspective. Some poly people have secondary lovers that do not share finances with them etc.... They have an emotional commitment with a secondary, but that relationship is subordinate to their primary relationship (eg. marriage). It could be like swinging with the same person/people, but having emotional connections with them as well as sex. You can get involved and try it. The limits are up to you and your primary partner.
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