Fascinating stuff. I've often wondered what it would be like to be in a polyamorous relationship, but then I'm smacked in the face by the idea of time-sharing and meeting the demands of more than just my spouse. I guess what I'm really amazed by is the fact that a couple could deal long-term with all the foibles of
another two people. And some polyamorous quads share finances, households, etc. It's intriguing but sounds like too much damn work for me
Honestly, I do care deeply for some of our friends, but it's so much easier to do that from within the firm boundary of my marriage...