I guess in the very rawest form you are right.
But they way I love Dog is not at all the way I love my friends. I go days to months with out a word on the phone or a hug from them and I am ok with that, would love to see them more, but I can manage.
I could never manage to go that long with out some type of physical affection from Dog.
I guess it comes down to the all consuming feeling that you can't be without someone as oppose to the "I miss you guys, hope to see you soon" feeling.
I really don't know how to put it. But I do know that my love for my friends is very dear to me and I would hate to loose it. On the other hand it isn't an emotional need like I have with Dog.
More like a dirty sex need. Ha just kidding, I would have these people for friends even if there was no sex.
There you go, I have plenty of friends that I love. Why does the fact that I have sex with this one particular couple mean that the same love is now a poly situation.
In swinging SEX is just Sex.
My brain hurts.
Your friend,
Prettylady