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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321  rdy46227 ~
To me, it would seem your relationship with the BF is founded on hope for a poly relationship to develop. But I don't think he has a clue about what poly means, nor will he be able to grasp it. In his mind, he's still having "affairs" and your wife is his present affair, nothing more.
What may be bugging him is that after 6 months of sex with your wife, he is wanting more than just your wife, i.e., affairs with other women, but is torn about continuing with his past pattern of finding sex when he needs it. Or maybe he feels that you are trying to "marry" him. Your wife's sexual relationship with him is still very new - 6 months - and he may move on in due time because he doesn't want to be bound by another relationship...he's already got his wife.
LM |
That's what I was getting out of this too, but didn't know how to articulate it.
Best of luck to ya'll . . .
=)