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Originally Posted by rdy46227  But after size years of knowing us, something still must be bugging him.
I realize you all aren't mind readers, but any ideas why he might keep returning to the question of my accepting them having a secondary relationship? |
So, his wife is not participating in any type of relationship outside of their marriage? Is she not open to that?
On the flip side...you mention that even after 6 years he basically keeps questioning 'why you allow this to happen'. Maybe that's because he can't fathom giving his wife the same freedom that he has, and he can't quite wrap his mind around why you can?
Honestly, I would just ask him why he keeps expecting the other shoe to fall (ie: drama). Although, since he and your wife are pretty chatty and tend to share life details...maybe she could turn the question on him after the next time the three of you get together?