Re: What brings people to poly?
We changed our Swing Lifestyle and APG profiles today to reflect our desire for light/social poly relationships. We have been unable to reconcile our values and styles with that generally expected by swingers. For us, intercourse in the absence of some degree of love/affection does not excite us. Ultimately, we just end up feeling bad about it so why do it. We're not looking to combine households but we are looking for one or two tender and caring relationships that others have been lucky enough to have as discussed on this thread. Love is not a finite resource - the more you give the more you have.
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