 Re: Is Swinging Poly?
The author referred to the spectrum that each falls on. When wrapping my brain around similar topics I usually think of how they fall on a spectrum.
I think the polyamory/swinging spectrum looks like a bell curve...few that are pure swingers, few that are pure polyamorists, and a bunch that live in the area between.
I like classifications for shorthand but they break down quickly when you start to define and differentiate.
If someone put me into a box right now, it would be polyfidelity. I have two women that I am totally in love with and not much interest in sex with others. I also don't have interest (maybe better said, "energy") in having another relationship as deep as those right now. That said, it's all fluid so next year (or month) my exploration might look different and the polyfidelity box might not fit as well.
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