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Originally Posted by TheGreatRaja  thanks.. granted I seem to be stymied by how to respond to the Sanctity of Marriage comment |
First off you can not get someone interested in swinging and it sounds like your wife's core beliefs are not conducive to any kind of meaningfull dialog about anything other than traditional monogamous marriage. Statements like, "not in this lifestime," are pretty black and white and don't leave much room for interpretation.
The only reason I am responding at all is because my wife and I have made comments like this to each other at various points in our marriage yet here we are.
So to address the comment you made here I will mention this. I don't see swinging as violating the santity of our marriage at all but rather it is just one small piece of our overall sexual dynamic as a couple. In other words it is just a part of our maritial sex life. We have a normal martial sex life just like anyone else out there but every now and then we include other people into the bedroom and that just provides some extra excitement and stimulation to our sexual experience. When we have an encounter we are making love to each other as a married couple, there just happens to be another married couple there providing a little extra stimulation for us and we do the same for them.
So to get back to your original question, I would lay million to one odds that you will not be doing any swinging and that if you were to keep pestering her about it you may even end up in divorce court.
There is a reason that 99.9999999999% of the earths population are nonswingers and strong core beliefs that monogamy is the only appropriate form of sexual expression is one of the main reasons for that.