Quote:
Originally Posted by rdy46227 
Swingers are over the wall.
So what makes poly easy for swingers is that the sex/exclusivity angle is already taken care of. When a budding multiple relation situation runs up against the exclusivity wall, the vanilla will have to scale it, but a swinger will have already torn it down.
And polly is just beyond the wall for the swingers who choose emotional involvement.
|
I can't say I agree totally, but what you present in your other posts does have some interesting thoughts. I could see this If poly was your nature or even if the relationship moved into a poly (loving) relationship. But we cant say for us personally the wall is down. Even if there is a wall. We just have a distance between what we feel between ourselves, and the people we play with. We see it as a kindred sexual friendship. Not a way of moving into The emotional Love.