Julie,
We wanted to get together this evening and answer these questions together but the man is going to be late with other commitments. Since some of the questions are directed towards me, Ill log in separate and answer as best I can.
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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie  You mentioned that primarily swing with single females now, how did that come about? |
I guess I should start early in my life with this. Because its where we began our discussions and going with my bisexuality. When I was young, we played a game back then called spin the bottle. I thought it was o.k. kissing the girls and the boys. I didn't know. Then I found out I was the only one in the game that did. After the bottle landed on a girl in the group everyone laughed and I just kissed her. I knew then I liked that, it was different than with the boys. I liked both. After I realized they were laughing at me, I acted like it was just a mistake and hid this side of me way deep. I always had the feelings for women but it was just labeled wrong. I went with that throughout life. We were listed as me being straight for a long time when we joined this lifestyle.I really fought it but slowly showed my interests. Then one evening a single Bi female kissed me at a party and I knew what I felt was O.k. and really exciting. Then began our talking and experimenting slowly. We just talked pretty much the first year. This past year has been the real opener for me to explore it with my partner. He has really made me feel like I have all the freedom I needed to feel comfortable. I think him showing me this wasn't about him, it just makes it more about me. I like that.
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are you just primarily seeking single females?
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Yes, for now. But don't get me wrong. Sometimes I want men as well.
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Or have things just progressed to where you have found it easier to swing with single females?
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Yes, after searching and searching the web we were more successful meeting a few single bi females at the clubs. Then I have one girlfriend that lives close and she loves spending time with me as well as the weekend with us.