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a._synonymy,

I have been lurking in this thread as well. A rule in the swing community is that if Momma isn't happy, no one is happy. As long as the two of you are happy, it is all good. My one comment is for your hubby. I strongly suggest that you don't look for a partner at work. Yes, it is easier because it provides a good venue for meeting other women, but the dangers of serious problems is just too great.

I have seen profiles on Swing Lifestyle where they register as a couple and the wife clearly states that she is looking for a woman for her man. I don't know how well they work, but they are there. You might also look for other outside activities where there is social interaction where you and the wife can participate. A woman that you meet who knows that your wife is really behind this, and that you are not cheating on her, will be more open to the possibilities. Good Luck!!!

S