[babeandhon]

I have been lurking for awhile now and never posted but felt compelled to post to your post. I, too am happily married but get turned on by my Husband having another relationship. I cannot really explain it. This woman was the OW, which sucks but I know he cares for her and is happy being with her. Their R is nothing like ours and never will be (we have been together for 30 years!) but it seems to make him happy. And, being in love with someone, don't you want your SO to be happy? No, I don't have another person in my life and their are days when I do and days when I don't...but we'll see about that. Anyhow, after he has been with her we have the most incredible sex--it is amazing! Yes, I do get jealous at times but that is because of the lying in the past. As long as I know he is not lying to me anymore (and I don't think he is) then things are fine. Although, I don't understand why she still sees him. She knows he'll never leave me but seems to be content just being the "booty call" every once in awhile. To each his own. Anyhow, whatever works for the two of you then go for it...just make sure you both are honest with each other. Good luck!