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LOOKIN4FUN9773 · 02-10-2008, 07:42 PM

First off we would like to say

to the borad.It has been a god sent for us,with so much information and helpfull people.

Now that thats out of the way!Each one of the prev. posters have good points although we dont compleatly agree with the way that dreamcouple tryed to make there point.I (the male half)have been in the situation that they are refering too.My sugjestion to you in referance to that is talk talk talk and when you think you have talked enough talk somemore.Make sure her feelings are 100% clear to both of you.I feel this situation would be like a full swing make sure everything is open and on the table.If not there could be fall out.

We the (Mrs and I) have the kind of relationship the you are talking about.One thing that I am assuming here is that this is going to be just for you??Is your wife Bi and looking for a gf for you both?Our relationship is one were the Mrs is Bi and really is not looking to swing with a male,so we look for a bi fm most of the time.But she has given me premission (and its truly no reading between the lines premission)to play alone as long as the rules are respected.Our rules/boundrys are simple 1) She meets or knows the girl and approves(if she dont no play) 2)Its at home or she knows were im at 3) Be safe...Simple HUH...

So yes there are people out there in relationships that dont differ far from what your wife has proposed to you...AND yes what western swing and rpu3 has said it is harder for married men to find play mates.As western swing said we find its easyer to find a playmate if the mrs is involved the potental playmates seem to feel more comfertable.We have also had good luck with the mrs being the one to start the conversation.

Good luck in your quest.....We are in fl as well hit us up on yahoo and we can chat maybe we can give you some places to try to find what your lookin for...

02-10-2008, 07:42 PM	#6 (permalink)
LOOKIN4FUN9773 Here to Stay Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 35 Location: FLORIDA Status: COUPLE SLS Name:LOOKIN4FUN9773	Re: What my wife wants... First off we would like to say to the borad.It has been a god sent for us,with so much information and helpfull people. Now that thats out of the way!Each one of the prev. posters have good points although we dont compleatly agree with the way that dreamcouple tryed to make there point.I (the male half)have been in the situation that they are refering too.My sugjestion to you in referance to that is talk talk talk and when you think you have talked enough talk somemore.Make sure her feelings are 100% clear to both of you.I feel this situation would be like a full swing make sure everything is open and on the table.If not there could be fall out. We the (Mrs and I) have the kind of relationship the you are talking about.One thing that I am assuming here is that this is going to be just for you??Is your wife Bi and looking for a gf for you both?Our relationship is one were the Mrs is Bi and really is not looking to swing with a male,so we look for a bi fm most of the time.But she has given me premission (and its truly no reading between the lines premission)to play alone as long as the rules are respected.Our rules/boundrys are simple 1) She meets or knows the girl and approves(if she dont no play) 2)Its at home or she knows were im at 3) Be safe...Simple HUH... So yes there are people out there in relationships that dont differ far from what your wife has proposed to you...AND yes what western swing and rpu3 has said it is harder for married men to find play mates.As western swing said we find its easyer to find a playmate if the mrs is involved the potental playmates seem to feel more comfertable.We have also had good luck with the mrs being the one to start the conversation. Good luck in your quest.....We are in fl as well hit us up on yahoo and we can chat maybe we can give you some places to try to find what your lookin for...