[TheDeal]

We made the transition from Swinging not too long ago. OK, we never really got into the whole swinging thing as the first couple we played with were also some long time best friends. That situation led us to poly. Hard not to when you already love the other couple as friends and the you sex them...LOL! For us, the safety, friendship, comfort level, all while still getting to have the freaky fun are the main reasons for doing the poly. Just as in swinging; there are many types or levels of poly. Some prefer no secondaries and everyone is on complete equal footing. Others have the primary relationship and all other are secondaries. Ours is like that, but it does not limit the importance or emotion involved in the least.