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Originally Posted by Tybee Swing  I saw that the four of you met via swinging. Did you meet through personal ads, this board, at a club? The first time you met was it a date, or something else? Please tell us about your first date (or meeting) as a foursome.
In hindsight, was there something that really stood out as very different/special about that date (or first meet)? Or was it a pretty typical first date, and you didn't know there was anything special about it until later?
Are you celebrating Valentine's Day as a foursome?
This next one is probably the most common question, but it's the one that stands out the most in my mind because it's how I think....
Don't you just get tired? I mean, emotionally/mentally, love relationships do take a lot of time and effort. I adore my husband, but to have two of him all the time....Hmmmm, I just don't think so!  Kidding aside, does it get stressful or tiresome to manage multiple relationships? Do you have time to just get away as individuals if you get to feeling too entangled? |
Tybee, we met through personal ads with SLS. I guess you could say it was a date. We met for dinner and immediately liked each other. We stayed hours talking in the restaurant. So long that I gave the waitress a tip for the next people she could have waited on. We then talked a couple of hours more outside. In the cold! Which leads to why I think it was special. Gator and I had never talked with anyone like that. We just clicked...more than clicked I suppose. We had just met and hated leaving the others.
Yes, we'll be celebrating Valentine's Day as a foursome. We were just talking about this tonight.
I have to be honest and tell you that sometimes I do get tired (I can't answer for the others). It is a lot to invest emotionally and mentally. That has been a bit of a problem for me. More so than the others. So, yes, they give me the time to myself that I need. I've always needed that though. Even when it was just Gator and I. That's just my personality.
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