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Originally Posted by Tybee Swing  Did all four of you arrive at the realization at the same time that this was more than "just sex"? Or were some of you falling for each other before the others did? How did all of that work out?
When you four are together, is it mainly straight swap MF MF? Separate play or all together?
The kids who were told about your relationship: how did they respond? Do they understand, or is understanding this a process for them to work though? |
To tell the truth my wife Kitten pointed out the fact that I loved Vol long before i would admit it. Vol and I both knew about the same time that Gator and Kitten had a crush on each other so to speak. But that is the diference in the four of us. Vol and I are more stand offish of people, personality wise we like to keep people at arms length. Gator and kitten are more of the "people person" type and pretty much fell for each other almost instantly. Vol and I had to work at it just a little more. It hasn't always been easy but it is worth it.
when we are all four together yes it is straight swap. as far as separate or all together i guess that depends on the mood. here recently it has been more separate.
as far as our kids go, they were pretty understanding. our youngest graduates this year and has already started telling Gator and Vol what he wants as a graduation gift. Our middle son is understanding about the relationship as well. As he says "I am glad that you and mom have found somebody to spend time with and like to be around as much as Gator and Vol. They are good people and I like them alot".
Gator and Vols youngest is not as understanding and we have had problems with him accepting the relationship. However I can't really hold that against him or anything like that. Not every adult is as understanding of this relationship as others.