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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie So once you found your way into a poly situation you all decided to give up swinging and go that direction only?
Are there any talks of one couple or the other moving closer?
How often do you get to see each other? |
Gator and I are more open with swinging again than Tech and Kitten. I feel it is because we went into swinging originally for different reasons. We aren't doing so now, true, and more than likely we won't. It's just like the relationship Gator and I started with. If one of us, this time any of the four, doesn't want to then none of us will. It isn't something I think we'd look at now even if we all were willing. The relationship itself is enough work right now.
Yes, we've talked about one or both couples moving. Closer would definitely be better than this. Living together has been talked about too.
We make sure we see each other, by meeting halfway, at least once a week even if it's just for a few hours. Dinner and movies...things like that.
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