[ratimadan]

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"I have been debating about putting this here for a while and I have finally decided to do so. Please bear with me.

My wife has a friend that flirts with me often and I flirt right back. I have always viewed this as harmless since she is not (to my knowledge) in the lifestyle. Her huband is very conservative and somewhat a jerk. If he knew that she and I flirted the way we do he would be pissed. Like I said I have always viewed this as harmless and nevr thinking it ould go anywhere. I would like it to go somewhere."

Travcouple:

The situation you relate is not too uncommon. In fact, it's all too common for another woman to have a crush on another woman's hubby. The difference lies in how one handles the situation. We have faced and are still facing a similar situation with wife's best friend (Su) who is married. She had suggested to my wife on several occassions that she was interested in a partner swap with us two and she and her hubby, and, have intercourse with each other's mate. Needless to say that her husband is not interested in sex, leave alone swapping mates with another couple for sexual play and intercourse.

A while ago the three of us, me wife and Su, had to babysit Su's grandkids overnight on a Saturday. Wife was in bed with one and Su was with the other. I was in another bedroom getting ready for bed. Su had left her suitcase there, open, with her nylon panty which she had removed previously, in view. Shortly thereafter, Su came into the bedroom to kiss me goodnight. A light goodnight kiss on the lips turned into embrace and passionate kissing. I removed her top and then dropped her nitie to the floor. Su had her hand on my dick. Both of us moved on to the bed naked and I gave her an oral kiss on her vaginal lips and her clit. Su had spread her thighs and was guiding my hard cock into her pussy. Suddenly, I realized that fucking her meant commiting adultry. This is certainly not what the lifestyle is about. We disengaged ourselves from the brink of the two of us fucking and having intercourse.

Next day I confessed and told my wife what had happened the night before. We have decided that the only way I would have sex with Su is to do a full partner swap with Su and her hubby, where Su's hubby is given the opportunity to fuck my wife and I get to fuck Su. Let's see where this leads to. Until then we are at a standstill as far as Su is concerned.

R&M