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SCcpl40 · 02-02-2008, 08:49 AM

Sometimes when your dealing with flirtations outside of the lifestyle you have the upper hand. You've been able to take those flirtations and act on them, whereas others in the vertical world are just thinking it's just flirting and what's the harm because nothing is going to come of this.

We go to church and there are several couples in our Sunday school group that like to flirt and make innuendos, also people from work and other vertical social circles, we just look at each other and smile. We consider them to be off limits and not of the mental age of consent in the lifestyle. Taking advantage of them would be like a pedophile over a child.

If however someone approaches us with some knowledge of the lifestyle and they are curious, we sit them down and tell them the facts. Then it's up to them as a couple to go forward.

We think your desire is clouding the big picture for you. they aren't in the lifestyle, it would be adultery without the husbands consent, and that depending where you live, could cause you to be in court.

Bottom line, unless both consent, you should back off.

02-02-2008, 08:49 AM	#9 (permalink)
SCcpl40 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 137 Location: columbia, sc Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sccpl40	Re: Wife's Friend Sometimes when your dealing with flirtations outside of the lifestyle you have the upper hand. You've been able to take those flirtations and act on them, whereas others in the vertical world are just thinking it's just flirting and what's the harm because nothing is going to come of this. We go to church and there are several couples in our Sunday school group that like to flirt and make innuendos, also people from work and other vertical social circles, we just look at each other and smile. We consider them to be off limits and not of the mental age of consent in the lifestyle. Taking advantage of them would be like a pedophile over a child. If however someone approaches us with some knowledge of the lifestyle and they are curious, we sit them down and tell them the facts. Then it's up to them as a couple to go forward. We think your desire is clouding the big picture for you. they aren't in the lifestyle, it would be adultery without the husbands consent, and that depending where you live, could cause you to be in court. Bottom line, unless both consent, you should back off.