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Originally Posted by travcouple

I have been debating about putting this here for a while and I have finally decided to do so.

My wife has a friend that flirts with me often and I flirt right back. I have always viewed this as harmless since she is not (to my knowledge) in the lifestyle. Her huband is very conservative and somewhat a jerk. If he knew that she and I flirted the way we do he would be pissed.

I moved my family away due to my job.

My wife and I have talked about me being with her friend and of course my wife has no problem with it. I am now moving back and I would like to move past flirting with this friend, but I am not sure how to approach it since seh doesn't know about our lifestyle. I also don't want to make the attempt to move past flirting and jeopardize my wife's friedship with her or the friendship I have with her.

Originally Posted by travcouple

Unfortunately it would happen behind his back. I'm ok with that if she is, but I don't want to destroy her marriage either. She isn't happy, but isn't going to leave him either.

I may be going way out on a limb and nothing is ever going past flirting and my imagination is running away with me.

Im just not sure what reaction you expect here. I don't think you want advice since you asked for opinions.

But since I'm in a great mood this morning ill give mine. I'm not sure who is deceiving who in your swinging experience or relationship. How do you trust anyone while your away? You would cheat on your wifes best friends husband, Your wife would condone her best friend cheating with you,and her best friend is flirting behind her husbands back.. But while your away everyone is honest with you, and your back door is safe. Makes sense so far.

We didn't get a chance to welcome you to the Swingers Board, sorry about that.

Let me tell you my problems today, from someone who would never cheat on even my worst enemy. Yes we have something in common, I had a hard time posting this as well..My wifes friends know me very well.. We have been in this lifestyle a short time compared to our lives... What we have done so far is earn allot of trust in our marriage, and friendships with fellow swingers. Especially my wifes friends. I have been working 16 hour days for the most part, but i have this weekend off. Throughout any time away, there is not a doubt that my home is safe.

Because of my trust and integrity. My wife has arranged a fun evening with her friend who would never cheat. Possibly a stay over, we shall see. Now this friend of hers last time was over at our home, fucked and sucked me with my wife, till they brought me to my Knees. And i even got a few photos, but to be honest, the 4 hours they put me in Ecstasy, I really couldn't think of the damn camera. My problem now is keeping up with them. My wife has rented a movie and made high energy snacks that are in the fridge. She has told me this morning while she is away today, Hang out on the swingers board, take naps its a Me, Me, day. They should be here around 7:30 this eve.

Still I have problems with these honest women. Last time i took half a Viagra, and I'm worried about the 4 hr. hard on. No shit, I've never had that happen before Anyone could guess I'm going to take a half one again this evening. And still the problems go on... My wife gets a little freaky at times. She has told me they want to try them being in a 69, and me fucking my wife from behind, wants me to kinda dip down and let her friend suck me from time to time. I don't know what to even call it? Pussy to mouth to pussy? I really don't know. All this, because I'm honest. No way would this happen with a friend of hers who would cheat on their husbands.

May lightning strike me dead if I'm being dishonest in any way with you now.

But thats the thing, I'm here for a reason. I'm thinking, because I would treat any of my wifes friends husbands Fair and Honest. We just cant see your lifestyle approach with your fantasy. But then again, we all have our problems, Don't We? I don't think I could handle yours. But i just wish maybe you could see my point of view in life. Give it a try, Whats to loose?